What's the best way to attract a woman who isn't attracted to you, but you are attracted to her?

Ignoring may work but the waiting sucks and if you're crazy for this woman, you can't just sit around ignoring her waiting for her to knock on your door. Women love confident men. Find out what she's interested in, what she likes, plan a thoughtful "in" to try and spend some time with her.

Ask her out. Not knowing your situation, its tough to make a better recommendation. Is she a co-worker, friend, neighbor, classmate?

Ask her to study together, work on something together, help her out with something. Find some way to get close to her. Then be confident, and ask her out.

If she has something to do, be persistent, not a pest, but get a date with her, and then see where it goes from there. Try to be unique. And BE COOL.

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That's a difficult situation, but you could try asking her your question. You would then know if there's something you can do and if you have to do something spectacular).

I have been in that situation and I admit, it is really frustrating. First of all, do not expect to much, chances are she may not be interested to have a relationship this time. Be patient, maybe some other time, when you least expect it, she may start noticing you.

Here are a few tips: 1. Be yourself, do not try too much to impress her. Being a show off may make it worse.2.

Try to be a little more thoughtful, invite her and her friends or colleagues to have lunch as a group. 3. Greet her good morning, good afternoon, have a nice day once in a while 4.

Send her flowers when there is an occasion 5. Learn her interests, but don't overdo it. Try to make a short conversation about her interests.

Just be patient. Time will tell.

Many ways to give it a shot. Firstly, you got to change your normal demeanor toward her. If you've been all in to her and she knows it (women have a strong intuition and smell these things from way far off), stop.

Stop being overly caring toward her, stop expressing your emotions, stop calling her every now and then, stop asking her out. You know, what you've currently been doing ain't working, it is clear. So, do it differently.

Once you have changed your behavior toward her (don't come off as rude though), you can test the waters. Observe if she is getting impatient, chances are she will never really show it, but you'll have to keep a watch. If you meet mutual a friend, avoid talking about her.

When this friend tells her about your meet up, and then tell her that you didn't bother to ask about her much, she'd be intrigued. Maintain a relationship that is just limited to casual hellos and how you doings. Of course don't completely break off the contact, since that'd come across as you being resentful and angry.

That is another form of feeding attention to her, which you don't want to do. Behave with her like you do with another female who is just a friend or an acquaintance. This should trigger some weird feelings in her, if she is been playing hard to get.

Alternatively, consider other prospects for dating. Don't do it just to make the current flame jealous or so. Date someone you really like (okay, like as second best after your current).

Since you are involving another girl here, be considerate of her feelings too. See if you can get along with them, if not, you already have this one to go after again. Remember, however, if she doesn't have any romantic liking for you AT ALL, all of this may be a relief to her.

Note: All said and done, know that this is more like playing games and it needs efforts. If you want the easiest course, you may want to forget about her, or ask her directly if she has even an iota of interest in you. I guess you have done enough of pursuing and you need to get on one side.

Good luck! BEst, Browneyed.

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