We spend so much time together...so when are we getting married...?or just blurting it out like:OMG I think I love you...I had a dream about us being on a date last night...and I liked it! Or something like that... I mean you don't want to destroy the friendship or make it awkward... so you want to keep it light at this point... like it would be no hard feelings if it doesn't happen perhaps... well... assuming you would still want to be friends if the answer is negative...
Well, I think you have to be careful. If he only thinks of you as a "friend" you can ruin the friendship. You might try little things like reaching for his hand or giving him a hug and see how he reacts.
If he pulls away after the second time, that's sort of an indication he's not interested. Now, if he seems interested, you might invite him to something typically thought of as "romantic" such as a movie with just the two of you, or a dance, or long walks on the beach, or whatever romantic couples in your town do. Of course, at some point, you do have to tell him.
I've been on both sides, liking someone who didn't like me and having someone like me that I didn't like that way. And rejection does hurt, but eventually you do find someone that you're interested in and is interested in you at the same time.
You don't really give many details so it is hard to give you feedback but if he's your best friend then you must have known him for a while. Is there any indication coming from him that he may also want more than just friendship? For example, does he call you often, compliment how you look, spend a lot of time with you, give you hugs, not date other girls, etc.? If he's doing those things he may have romantic feelings for you.
You could ask him if he's ever envisioned your relationship as being more than just friends or if he wants to keep it platonic. If that's too risky for you then try another approach - do you share a close friend that you could confide in? If so, ask them what they think.
They may have inside information that can help. Either way it's a risk, you have to decide whether or not you're comfortable with the possibility of being hurt, or would rather be love sick. Not an easy choice but if you do some further investigation it might help you decide.
I hope you are lucky in love. Peace, BosM .
Let the guy tell you instead. Let the guy lead. They are much more afraid and will tell you when they are ready.
Try a complicated approach.. JUST TELL THEM! Does there have to be games to everything? .
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