Which one violates the "sanctity" of marriage more, same sex marriage or divorce?

Sex is not the most important part. It is however an important part of the marriage it's a way you can show your partner you still love them, you acknowledge their needs and you still think there attractive. Once you stop having sex the other partner noramlly will question all three of those like: am I not good enough?

What am I doing wrong? Am I not sexy anymore? Is he getting it elsewhere?

These questions are just a naural reaction and they can't be helped. I'd say that the most important part of a marriage is communication, partnership (doing things as a team and being there for each other) agree to disagree moments (to avoid arguing) and stability is a big factor to avoid stress levels from both parties.

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