I don't blame you I would be irritated too. The fact that you told her you didn't want her to wear it and you sent her your hoodie? If it were my boyfriend, I wouldn't ever wear the other guys sweater because its just a problem that can be avoided so easily... just don't wear it.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.