Why do many ppl work hard to have good relationships with their parents but NOT with their spouses?

I guess it all depends on the way you and your parents interacted while you were growing up. My parent were very loving but strict to the extent that I couldn't wear my dresses too short, date till I was 15, be home on time or my dad was on the road looking for me. The fact that he was a teacher I n my high school didn't help.

Couldn't wait to leave ho me! Don't know quite what happened when my mother became my best friend and confidante and my father someone realized was one of the most liked teachers I n the school due to his wisdom and compassion.It took me leaving the house to discover that love for your parents only grows and although my mom died 7 years ago, she is still with all of us.''We shouldn't have choose between parents and spouse, but it happens if your spouse is not a social or family-oriented person. If he will attend the mandated family functions, he doesn't have to go to all of them.

They should also treat him with the same love and respect that they do you. I think if you were in a relationship, you might find the couples that decide to divorce without trying to wor k things out are few and far between,My m o always said when somebody "did us wrong", "You are mine and nobody is going to hurt mine!"Also, because they miss the only boy in the who never visits "A son is a son till he marries a wife; a daughter's a daughter all of her life. You can have both, even if your spouse doesn't share fully.

My dad called our house the "revolving doors" for a while, because all us moved back home at least once." pammyj 50 months ago.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.