I can imagine a MRA loving a women but ONLY if he is NOT a feminist hater and most are terribly prejudiced against feminists. Love should overcome huge ugly prejudice like a rabid hatred of women's rights and even if she is not a feminist, thinking that she should be discriminated against because of being a woman is ugly and sexist and hurtful and shows there is NO REAL LOVE - ONLY demeaning LUST likely and a huge ugly profound lack of respect. In terms of MGTOW the men who seem to want to have things to do with women seem to want to hurt them - use them for sex and dump them - this is inhuman.
The reason men go for MGTOW is that they do not want to have a meaningful future with a woman and in thinking that way they cannot really love her and likely hurt her sabotaging the relationship. When you say things like, "Feminism destroys women and creates pseudo-men with vaginas" I cannot believe you are not about hurting the women you say you care about.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.