Why Older women marry young Men and Older men like young Girls?

I think everyone is attracted to energetic positive people. Younger folks are less cynical about the world than older people. They tend to be more spontaneous and live life in the moment.

Older folks are much more cautious, set in their ways, and less optimistic about the future. They are not nearly as curious about the world around them. Being around someone with positive energy raises your own level of energy.

Each generation tends be more sexually open than the previous one. Depending on one’s age a younger person may do things for them in bed an older person would not be open to doing. A young man may pursue older women because they are less likely to play games.

If she wants to have sex with him he won’t have to spend nearly as much time or money trying to seduce her. She’s not expecting him to be her perfect” Mr. Right or Soul-mate. ” It’s been reported that Rob Lowe once dated Jane Fonda who is 27 years older than him.

This was long before Ashton & Demi became an item. A younger woman may pursue an older man because he is more established in his career and is financially able to travel, dine out, and enjoy life in more material ways than a younger man. However it is much more common for an older man to marry a younger woman than the other way around.

Men place more value on physical appearance than women do. Actor Morgan Freeman (72) is planning to marry his Step-Grand-daughter (27). That’s a 45 year difference!

It’s highly doubtful any 27 year-old man would consider marrying a 72 year old woman. While a 72 year old man can still conceive a child with a 27 year old woman it’s unlikely a 72 year old woman could bare a child. I doubt we’ll ever see the likes of (a female version of Hugh Hefner in her early 80s) still having sex with beautiful 20 year olds regardless of her wealth and fame.

Men place more value on the physical appearance of a woman than any other facet. This explains why women are obsessed with cosmetic surgeries and youth promising products (creams, lotions, stretch mark & cellulite conceal options)It’s not unheard of for a 50 year old woman to view a 30 year old woman as a competitor. A 50 year old man on the other hand could care less about a 30 year old man.

The older a man becomes he’s likely to be more established. (Financial stability attracts women)The older a woman becomes she's likely to be “less beautiful”. (Physical beauty attracts men).

Older folk like the freshness of younger folk, the sex is better, the youth rejuvinates them, it makes them feel younger, young at heart. It has a psychological effect on older people to be loved by (much) younger people. It improves their mental well-being and health.

They take more care in their appearance, changes them in lots of ways. As for men liking younger girls...wait - isn't it mainly the same thing! LOL!

I think its about perception on both parties part. I'm a middle-aged man; yet with some of the thing I do, I feel and act like I'm 19. From jogging 2.5 to 5 miles every other day; to cycling and playing sports and being adventurous; I seem to attract women much younger (in their 20's) then I do women my own age.

A few of my female friends that are around my age and single, tell me that I am to active for them. Guys that I have met that are dating some of my female friends say they like the fact that they can slow down a bit with an older woman. I'm sure this is not all inclusive.

But, I do find it interesting.

I have a theory that men don't actually mature mentally until much later than girls do. So a 23 year old woman is as mentally mature as a 30+ year old man. That's not always the case but it seems to happen often enough that I'd say it is more likely than not.

It reminds them of thier younger years. Many don't want to admit they are getting old, this is just one case of how people deny it.

As I wrote this answer, my views on the reason have evolved and changed a lot. I think it comes down to people personalities. Good relationships I have noticed involve a leader and follower.In better relationships, this changes between the partners as is required by the event.

Many troubled relationships seem to be a result of either partner not wanting to give up control, and not respecting their partner’s need to control an event. In the younger/older relationship, the younger partner would be more willing to give control over to their older (and more experienced) partner without hesitation. The older partner would also be more understanding of their younger partner’s need for control, and be willing to give it when required.

This give and take is in my opinion is what makes a relationship. It can be with same aged couples, or young/old couples.As long as a couple is willing to be open to experiencing what the other partner has to offer, it results in a good/great relationship, regardless of the age. I am not so sure of cherryB’s comment.

Yes looks are important, but their attraction can fade quickly with the wrong attitude. Where both partners are willing to give to the other, they will always (in my opinion) look incredibly attractive to each other. I hope I haven’t sounded too esoteric, as I was just going through a personal aha moment here.

Being an older woman- young at heart of course - the reason we go for the younger man is maternal instinct - also a huge amount of self image and street cred - if a younger guy 'fancies' you then all power to your elbow. Its not surprising really with all that experience and less of that giggly younger woman thing! Younger women for older men - much the same I think how good does it feel to have a leggy blond on your arm with super tittys bubbling up instead of the older bird with whom gravity has started to take effect!

Coupled with that of course the older guy can teach the younger gal - sooo much!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.