Sending love songs wouldn't be obsessed, but sending them EVERY DAY definitely is. If he wasn't obsessed he wouldn't manage to do it so often. Also the "I'm a stalker, just kidding" thing is often the guy figuring out whether you find it charming, which you generally shouldn't.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.