Bottom line both are guiltyand both can walk away be a decent human being.
Sometimes, but sometimes not. "Women" are not a collective, just as "men" are not a collective. I do not think, however, that there is ever a good reason for one person to kill another person because that person said something to hurt their feelings.
Blaming a victim of domestic murder for being killed because they said something that upset the person who murdered them is extremely unproductive and wrong. It just empowers these types of dangerous abusers to continue this type of abuse. This goes for both women and men.
I do not think a woman who chose to stay with her abuser should get out of a murder rap just because her husband has been abusive to her for years and she "finally snapped and killed him." Sorry, but unless she was being held captive all those years, no one was forcing her to stay with this abusive person.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.