Worlds Colliding! My husband wants to join Askville and I'm having strong mixed feelings?

Worlds Colliding! My husband wants to join Askville and I'm having strong mixed feelings. Should I dissuade him or just let it happen?

What does everyone think? Are there any other couples out there willing to weigh-in? Asked by saintgertrude 41 months ago Similar Questions: Worlds Colliding husband join Askville strong mixed feelings Recent Questions About: Worlds Colliding husband join Askville strong mixed feelings Amazon > Askville.

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I thought about this for a while and here is my humble opinion. If it were me I think I would try to dissuade him. Askville is a place where you can let you hair down and talk about things that you normally would not talk with your husband and friends.

To have him reading your comments and answers would I think take the fun out of it for you. Another problem would be for instance, Lets say you have a disagreement with another member and comments are thrown back and forth on a DB. I know if someone did that to my spouse I would be really pissed and jump in when I probably should just keep out of it.

He probably would not understand how we can argue in one DB and get along in another. Why don't you just explain this to him and find another "talk site" that he can get involved in and feel free to express himself without you looking over his shoulder.

Not married I dont' want any of my relatives to join Askville. My first instinct is to tell you to HIDE HIDE HIDE. Change your AV name and remove other personally identifying information from your profile.

Log out every time you leave the computer at home. Everybody needs his/her own identity away from a relationship. You got to Askville first, it was yours first.

What a quandary! However, my tack would be to make the above changes and not say anything to influence him in one way or the other, because I figure the more I try to influence him not to, then the more he would want to join. He can join fantasy baseball or fantasy football or do something else.

I'm assuming that he, also, is an autonomous adult. As such, he would have the same rights and privileges (and responsibilities) that you have here. The real issue is whether your marriage can withstand his disagreeing with you on some answers.

I would hope so, but if not, the question is much larger than whether he should be doing what you're doing.

Collision I wouldn't want my husband on Askville with me. Maybe, you can suggest Yahoo! .

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