Would it be Selfish/Cruel to Go & leave your kids alone while you went away with Your friends on vacation?

The whole point of Secret Santa is you don't know who is giving you the gift! So, unless you knew she was your secret santa beforehand or you were her secret santa, then there's no reason for you to get her a gift because you're someeone's else's secret santa. She broke the secret santa rules by not getting you a gift, so she's the hater.

And, no, it's not you, it's her! Anyway, she's not your friend. You don't have to completely cut things off alltogether right now, but it sounds like she's cheap and mean and you should gradually distance yourself.

She is a bully, NOT a friend. You need to unfriend her on FB and to look for new friends. Church is a good place to start.

Many churches have youth/fellowship groups for teens and young adults. That would be a great place to start.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.