Would you be mad if you see your partner was giving compliments to someone on their facebook?

The environment on Facebook is in a way set up like that for people to be social. Leaving "xxx" or "hugs and kisses" at the end of a post is not a bad thing. It is more of an accepted salutation than an affair.

I wouldn't be angry at all. It seems to me that there are too many uptight people in this world. Maybe some have good reason to be worried, scared, jealous etc.Depending on how well their relationship is.

If you are worried about it, I would suggest that you ask him about it without being confrontational. Express how you feel about it and listen to his explanation. Open communication is the key to a good relationship.

Between the two of you, you should work out what is and is not acceptable for the both of you to remain happy.

I would question him about it but wouldn't be too concerned unless there were other problems in the relationship. If the relationship is strong then there's really nothing to worry about. If there are other problems, it might be a red flag if there are other things like odd text messages, phone calls or his behavior obviously changes.My thing has always been if they are going to cheat, they are going to cheat but I make it very clear that I don't tolerate it under any circumstances so if they do it they better be darn sure that's what they want cause I'm gone.

It would also depend on how often it was going on and exactly what was being said. There's always the perception of others to take into consideration too. If it looks bad, I'd ask him to cool it.

I wouldn't think my husband was having an affair, no, but I would ask him about it. I would let him know that it bothers me that he's leaving kisses on the end of his comments. I don't care if he compliments another woman because I've complimented another man, but there's a line you shouldn't cross.

I know my husband loves me and I have zero doubt that he would ever cheat on me (with good reasoning), but I would definitely bring it up.

If it's all public then it's fine ... if they are private messages then i'd be worried ... in both cases i'd be a little jealous.

No...i give compliments too! :) giving compliments always doesn't ignite jealousy...

For me, if there's a lot of kisses at the end, and it's a female that's not his sister, nieces, or certain friends who are "little sisters" to him, then I would certainly bring it up. I would certainly feel pangs of jealousy, but it wouldn't go beyond mentioning it to him. If he knew it was something that would bother me, he'd stop.

However, he frequently puts hugs after his comments, and that is perfectly acceptable toward anyone. As for compliments, those would never bother me unless they were extremely personal comments about physical attributes (he'd turn beet red at the mere suggestion that he'd ever say anything like that). I think there is already too much negativity in the world, and if anyone sees something positive to say about another, even if it is my husband referring to another woman, then it should be shared.

He and I both keep our conduct above reproach -- we've both been cheated on before, and understand how much even suspicion can hurt -- so I'm not at all worried that there's something else beneath the comments. For different situations, whether it's unacceptable or not depends on your reaction to it. I elaborate a lot more on that point in my hub on cheating:wychic.hubpages.com/hub/The-Definition-of-C.

My husband and I have a very strong love for one another and still I think that I would be a bit hurt if I seen him doting a lot of compliments or attention to another woman. It's normal to feel jealousy towards something that you love dearly and want to keep it only for yourself. It's a normal feeling.

Honestly, depending on your location, and I see your in England, I wouldn't feel at all threatened by it. It varies on regions actually, but from my experience a lot of the times it's completely harmless! If it seriously bothers you though, and if he's putting an extra ordinary amount of X's at the end of these compliments (More than 1 X is strange) then I would talk to him about it.

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