Would you ever use an online dating site like eHarmony or Match.com?

I never was a believe in online dating sites until a friend suggested I join Plenty of Fish, a free online site. As it happens, I put in my photo and short description and lo and behold I got a reply shortly thereafter. That first girl that wrote to me about two years ago is still my girlfriend.

While I can't guarantee success for everyone, it's worth a try. The worse that can happen is you don't find anybody but at least you gave the effort. Incidentally I filled out the eHarmony questionnaire (which took almost 20 minutes) and at the end of it all it said I did not qualify due to being in the 20% of people who have certain qualities that they can't match me up with.To this day I have no idea what those were.

So beware.

If I was in the market I would never use online dating. I just don't believe in it. There are just to many people right in front of you to say hello to.

I seen in the news something happened with that match. Com with it's customers that weren't happy. I don't remember the details I wasn't interested.

But if you join and it works for you than you cannot condemn it. I just don't think you should have to pay to meet someone. I'm not looking and still meet people all the time and I'm not the best looking guy in the World.

For me, No. I can't see myself using an online dating service like eHarmony or Match.com. I'm not one who spend lots of time on social networking sites anyway, so using the internet to make a love connection, no thanks.

If I were single, I'd much prefer to meet people face to face, during activities that are mutually interesting. If you meet people doing the things you like to do, I feel you're more likely to meet the "right" person. Furthermore, you'll be having fun too.So go ski or golf or visit the art gallery with other friends or on your own.

You never know who you might bump into.

I met my wife of 8 years on one (Match. Com), actually she contacted me. Neither of us fudged on any of the stats and are as happy today as we've ever been.At the time we were middle class, Caucasian with me being a little more educated than her and I don't feel either of us revealed too much all at one time.. We are quite compatible and compliment each other, making our relationship an easy~one I believe.

My only suggestion though is have a friend shadow or double date with you, never know what kind of person you will run into.

I was leery of the concept when it first came out. Since then I think the algorithms have gotten more sophisticated for matching people. I have met, personally, at least 4 happy couples who met via an online dating site.

I will say this, as an outside observer. The process works best when you have something to bring to the table, are emotionally stable and reasonably good looking. I tried it myself one week end when they were having a free trial period.

I found that as I live in a very remote location, my chances of meeting someone were compromised. The three matches found for me were men who lived two and three hours away. Not impossible I suppose, yet more than I wanted to deal with.In a city it would work better.

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