Would you tell your cousin if you find out that her husband is cheating on her?

I think the thing to do is to confront the husband, tell him what you know, and that if he doesn't come clean with your cousin then you will tell her yourself. Of course, it may be that your cousin is already aware of the situation. If he was bold enough to take another woman to a wedding ceremony instead of his wife, I'd have to wonder about that.

Getting involved in another couple's marriage problems is risky business. Good luck.

It is best to tell her even if it ended up ruin your relationship with her. There is a lot of STDs and serious repercussions associated with cheating. Could you live with yourself if later on something happen to her which you can prevent?

It is damn if you do and damn if you don't and you may become the enemy so know that. Maybe you can make it anonymous if anything.

I would tell her, if I had hard evidence. I would tell my brother in law if my sister was cheating on him. That's how much I hate cheating!

Be prepared for back lash. Be prepared to be a shoulder to cry on. Be prepared to 'have answers'.

Cause they will be looking for them. Without hard evidence though, I would NOT do it. Cause then it becomes suspicion, and you against them.

I once told a friend that her husband was cheating on her. The results was that she left him for a day, and then after he pleading that I was a liar, she got back with him. Well it ruined our friendship.

Your situation might be a bit different because it is family, but still, is the relationship worth the risk? You know many women in these situations fail to admit to their husband’s affairs, even when they know they are going on. I personally don’t know your cousin and it would be hard for me to say, so I’ll just give you some things to think about.

*Does your cousin know and doesn’t want to admit it? If you think this might be a possibility, I’d probably leave it alone. She is just going to end up being upset with you until she is ready to admit the truth.

*How close are you to your cousin, will she believe you over him? This is what I would do if it was my sister or my friend. I would arrange for pictures to be taken of him with the woman or for her to catch him in the act.

This is proof, and you can be accused of being a liar. You could always send the pictures to her anonymously, then if she is in denial , you won’t be the enemy and she won’t feel so awkward. Or you could even send them to him, make him tell her.It would be best if you could get him to tell her.

I am not sure about the laws where you are, this is not lawful in some areas. So check in advance. I’ve just learned the hard way, it’s better for them to be caught in the act, or the man to do the telling.

This is a very tricky question. My husband and I have been in a very similar situation. A dear friend of ours was cheating on her boyfriend (another dear friend) and we decided to tell her boyfriend.

She denied everything and he ended up believing us, but getting over the situation. We ended up being "the bad guys" and the whole situation was ugly. My husband and I decided we would not personally get involved in anyone else's relationship.

However, if I was being cheated on, I would absolutely want to know. I suggest you follow your heart. If you would want to know, than maybe you should share the information with your cousin.

Just be prepared the situation can get ugly.

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