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I will definitely ask for their reason and the circumstances around my adoption. Perhaps they had no means or fund to adopt 2 babies at once. Perhaps they were afraid they could not take care of 2 babies at once.
What I would never do is to judge them. They have raised me and gave me love. For all but blood, they were my parents.It wouldn't be fair to be angry to them.
I would ask about the adoption agency too, and look for my twin. I would not be upset at those parents who had adopted me because I understand how hard and expensive it is to raise kids.
Yes, I would ask about it. Getting an honest answer would be another dilemma. People who would do that do not have business adopting.
I am sure it would cause emotional damage to both twins.
Oh! It would be so cool if I had a twin! But heck with confronting my adoptive parents about it.
I would get my adoptive parents to tell me which adoption agency they used. I would go to the adoption agency and let them know that I wanted to find my twin. In all liklihood, the adoption agency would be able to contact my long lost brother or sister for me!
Also, not everyone is educated on how to talk to an adopted child or the benefits of raising children openly. My husband wasn't adopted, but his father had been married before he got married to my husband's mother and before any children come along. They are a very religious family, and both he and his sister found out in youth group at church that their father had been married before because they were having a discussion about marriage and divorce and one of the other kids said something condescending to them about having a dad that had been divorced.
"real" parents as they'd always thought. 8/15/12 - Little Girl - 2 yrs old - court scheduled for February for review. When we adopted our oldest daughter, we started talking to her about her birth mom, adoption, and they day we got her etc. when she was still an infant.
It was a way for US to get used to the lingo, and also never forget how she came to us. As she got older and actually started to understand what we were talking about it, we were already comfortable talking about it, and could answer any and all questions.
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