22 pretty white fall in love to a 39 average blak man,HELP,i met online.?

I had to cut this down, because of this message "Your answer is too long, please remove any irrelevant information." ( Yahoo is experimenting with a limit on number of characters in a post). Yes, this is common these days. Even adults go through these online relationships.

98% of the time one of the two is effected badly when they meet in person. I wish schools would teach Internet Safety like they teach Sex Ed. Offline, when you are female, you get hit on,.. the guys want sex, they are their maturity level, you reject them because they won't even talk to you.

Some day the males your generation are mature enough to actually talk to you and want to hang out with you, instead of poking at you and wanting only sex out of you. One day you emotionally and mentally sync up with one of these guys and decide you want to have mentally stimulating interactions with them every day. You stay together a long time, maybe get married, maybe stay together forever.. because you are friends and partners.

Online, when you meet someone, every interaction filters through your brain. If someone is romantic or sexy, it's like a Romance Novel has come to life. You have Fabio there actively responding you all of your words.

If you have a relationship, it jumps start to mentally stimulating. If someone has sex with you online on top of that, then it's like you've just met prince charming, gotten married, and it's your honeymoon. But instead of him being all over you bothering you and wearing you out, you have the upper hand because it's a purely mental stimulation relationship.

Online sex is addictive and it's easy for people to "fall in love" rapidly. Deletes paragraph to make smaller* To the point: If a guy has been dating 15 year old girls for 15 years, then he is quite the charmer. You should write down his ID or whatever on Facebook.

Print out the information he put on his profile. Ask your daughter questions ( compare, because parts tend to not match up already). Explain to your daughter that I told you I did help in cases where teenage girls were killed, it does happen.

Teach her people aren't excited she can remember her name, address, and phone number now ( parents making this all so exciting and then teenagers keep giving it out). Teach her Internet Safety ( Facebook is good at conflicting with that). Then tell her for her safety you will contact the police to verify this person's identity, she can come help you.

This relationship will last longer then her RL relationships but it will only last a month or two after you are involved ( if they match their identity). Normal online relationships only last about 2 weeks to 2 months. But it's a bit different when you are talking about a teenage girl, so it will last longer.

You can't trigger the normal relationship progress until you remove that excitement of " My parents don't know!" It helps to make things more open and boring. I did help bust online Pediophiles.

So I have heard alot of their charming lines. People do get raped, kidnapped, and killed. The hardest thing was when I ran across a situation where someone was meeting many people offline, they died in an accident soon after a couple found out about each other with one driving.

Many of their Lovers committed suicide as word spread of which accounts they owned and that they had so many lovers online and also that they met offline. You cannot just cut off the relationship without some reasoning and interaction, teenagers rebel, runaway, invite the person over ( when noone is home, that's a nasty one), and become suicidal. To her she is in her first deep relationship, she is in a dream, you need to wake her up to reality and make this relationship more level headed.

Added: I am not a big fan of meeting in person since most people regret it. If you do decide for some reason to do this and this is not a local teen ( which someone can pretend to be also), you should consider the posiblity of dealing with three men. So you will want to meet at a public place that has a fun activity and have a number of friends and family there ( fun event makes a good cover for a large number of people).

She should never be alone with him and they should never go to the bathroom at the same time. By participateing in this, she will register him as safe and be more willing to go wherever he says and let him over whenever he wants to come over. She should secretly quiz him because some times "some kid" doesn't "mind" going out on a "blind date" or whatever they are told.

So the person to meet you some times isn't even the same person as she's been talking to online :/ It's nice to keep things online and never accept gifts. Then she gets to keep a fantasy. Added 2: Btw, if you are a girl online any where you run into alot of sweet talkers looking for minors.

You get use to it. I have even gotten junk on Neopets from Pediophiles looking for kids under 13. And it's all so common,.. and kids fall for it so easy, that there are many groups ( including in the governments) working on this problem.

But here's one that also entertains people ( to show you how common this is and how happy people are to see these annoying pediophiles get busted). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/To_Catch_a_...

I met my husband online at 18 and we've been married for years. I've found that you tend to talk more and get to know a person online better because the physical aspect is not an issue. Why do you think online dating sites do so well and stay in business?

It's quite possible to fall for someone without being in person, before the internet it happened through letter correspondence. I think one month is a bit quick and she's probably feeling the rush of infatuation, but it is possible to fall in love this way. Of course she should be a bit wary and take what he says with a grain of salt-- it's much easier to get away with lying online than in real life.

If she should meet him, it should be in a public place with a group of friends. I'd worry if he wouldn't be ok with that.