After years of marriage you discover that your ring is not a real diamond, even though your husband has presented it as such, what to do?

I probably wouldn't do anything. It's easy to jump to the conclusion that he purposefully tried to cheat me, but that might not be true. If it took you this long to find out, someone could well have sold HIM a counterfeit diamond.

And if this is the case, my confronting him would just cause a lot of problems. More importantly, though, I think rings are more about the symbolism of a relationship than any kind of an investment or material asset -- they don't even sell for that much in many cases! Making a fuss about something like this would just send the wrong message.

After years of being married with my husband I discovered that the diamond he was supposedly given to me is not real at all I am going to ask him why he lied to me. I just want to know the reason. Actually, the ring diamond or not is not important to me.As long as he is true to his commitment for the ring itself is just a symbol of his love and fidelity to me.

There are lots of reasons why he wanted me to think that it is diamond. One is that he wanted to impress me, but I will tell him outright that it would not make any difference for I am not after that. Maybe he will understand better now that we are married what type of woman I am to know that he made a mistake in lying to me just to impress me if indeed that was his primary purpose for making me think it was a diamond.

Confront him! It's not about the diamond, it's about not telling the truth. I would also be concerned about what my husband thinks of me if he didn't feel comfortable telling me in the beginning.

But, that's just me...

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