Am I a Jerk for constantly nagging at my Dad for his alcohol problem?

Nobody can tell you if you are alcoholic. Only you know. And only other addicts can understand and addict.

Which is why AA works. You have been debating this in your own head for years now. If you are ready to stop drinking, go to an AA meeting.

Your head sounds like it feels like a washing machine full of thoughts. Go along to a meeting and it will all make sense. Stop lol-ing, it's not really a laughing matter.

Alcoholics don't get sober because they are still having fun drinking. If you feel ready to take action and move to the next step, then DO IT.

If you think that you have a problem, you can seek help. There's nothing wrong with having a good time. I don't personally have a problem with drinking either.

I do it. But the fact that this is the second question that I've seen you post asking whether or not you are an alcoholic may be an indication of a problem. I don't judge others and I don't control others.

But if you think that you have a problem, then you need to take the steps necessary to solve it.

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