Similar questions: mother laws thinking daughter law taking son normal.
A son is a son till he takes him a wife, but a daughter's a daughter for the rest of yer life. "That's a really old saying but you still hear it.
Yes A mum and dad always want the best for their daughter, and the parents of the son rarely think the future daughter in law will be good enough. Most parents love their kids and it can be hard to let go. All of a sudden their small child is an adult, it seems to be such a short time.
From being the most important people, Mum and dad, quite rightly, take second place to the future son/daughter in law. It is better in your culture because family ties and respect for elders are part of that culture. I have heard it said many times, "marry a Filipina and you marry the family".
I like the concept but parents while proud of their kids, still feel the loss.
I'd say typical or all-too-common. Perhaps the thought( of the mother-in-law) can be matched (by the mother-in-law) with one of being blessed with the coming of a new daughter (without all the costs of rearing). In the story, what did Adam's mom think of Eve's influence upon her son (I mean, if he indeed had a mom)?
Perhaps it would be helpful to compare with another regional story. I hope you find peaceful-in-law answers. Surely, the perfect perspective to view in-law concerns ( concerns of in-laws' views) for harmony is yet to be found.
Perhaps somehow we can tolerate the in-tolerance lost until then.
" "I need some 'what to say to him advice' about the son-in-law who has bi-polar, for my daughter, about leaving!" "My son and soon to be (officially) daughter in law ~ got engaged last night! " "help I need to find a gift to send to Australia for my daughter and son-in law for xmas" "my mother-in-law wants to be at the birth of my son. Should I let her?" "If you are the mother of a divorced daughter, do you miss your ex son-in-law?
" "How can I get my daughter's to be mother in law to give her a wedding shower? " "How is your day going? My son and daughter in law just had their baby!
" "How does mother-in-law to get along with a son-in-law who has come to live with them?
I need some 'what to say to him advice' about the son-in-law who has bi-polar, for my daughter, about leaving!
My son and soon to be (officially) daughter in law ~ got engaged last night!
Help I need to find a gift to send to Australia for my daughter and son-in law for xmas.
My mother-in-law wants to be at the birth of my son. Should I let her?
My son and daughter in law just had their baby!
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.