Boyfriend, 8 months.still not in love with him.he loves me head over heels.fight way to much.hes way to protective?

Jealousy only wrecks relationships...you can't control other people.

Well if you are not into him, that could be a reason why you are fighting and if you are fighting too much then it is not working out and you should move on. If you do not share the same feelings, be fair to him and break it off. There is no sense in staying in a relationship if you do not have the same feelings for him.

I finally broke up with him a few weeks ago, and I stayed with him for so long because I cared to much about trying to make him happy which he said aquired staying with him no matter what happened DIFy 3 months ago .

It sounds to me like you're only in this relationship because of how much he "loves" you. But if you're constantly fighting and he's too protective for you, then you need to think about if you really want to spend the rest of your life living like this. Some girls like men who are overprotective because they feel, well, safe with him and like he would never let anything bad happen to them.

You don't sound like one of those girls, so this guy doesn't seem right for you. Also, protective men have a tendency to get worse over time. If I were you, I would figure out how to get out of this relationship and find someone more compatible for you.

The problem is that HIS VERSION of "love" is to "protect" and become angry when that attempt at protect is resisted. This explains why you don't love him. "Head over heels"?

I think he is in love with himself and is trying to work you into that image. You might or might not be able to explain this to him, but whether or not, you do need to leave this sad, sorry attempt at a relationship.

I couldnt agree with you more, I broke up with him a few weeks ago and came to the conclusion tht I feel tht he only did some of the nice things he did in a selfish manner thinking tht if it would make me happy then he would become more happy in a wierd twisted way, I dnt really know how to explain it, but I know how he is, and the wierd things he would do to "fake" as if it was to make me happy but it was more to his benefits, if tht makes sense DIFy 3 months ago .

Fight way too much, is not love honey! Your boyfriend feeds off drama.

I would say that falling in love with someone takes time and that amount of time is different for everyone. As long as it is a healthy relationship for the both of you there is really no hurt in staying together a little longer to figure out if you see a future together. The part that worries me is that you think he is over protective.

I think it is very important that you communicate this with him in a calm and non-accusatory manner so that some fighting is eliminated. Most likely if you are coming to us for advice than you know your answer already. Good luck!

Com 3 months ago.

If you feel this way then break up with him.

Find some dirtbag that treats you like s**t, and you will fall head over heels, and lead a very misrable life..

Don't waste years waiting for things or feelings to change, because most of the time it wont.

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