You say if you broke up with her it would "destroy her". You're her first love and she may be your's but you are obviosly thinking more rationally about the relationship. She's young and emotionally attached to you.
If you sleep with her and then decide to break up with her she could go running to her parents or she herself might become vengeful and come after you legally. Thats how these things happen The girl may be all for sex, or she'll cave in to keep you with her. If you leave after the deed you'll shatter her fragile ego and she might want to hurt you back.
Im sure she wouldnt want to have sex offender on your record, but she won't care while shes angry and she can't take it back once the law gets involved and her temper subsides. While you're in bct, getting letters from your girl are nice but your absence might make her lose interest. Your going to feel a lot more lonley if the letters stop because she's moved on.
You'll already be under a lot of stress and lack of sleep. You don't want to get dumped at basic with access to firearms and things while your not thinking clearly and brokenhearted to boot. While I went through BCT there were 2 suicides that I know of.
Some people just cant hack it, but its a stressful time. I don't know you. Im sure you'll make it through just fine.
Im just throwing out that you'll be pushed to your limit and you don't need more stress piled on top of it. You'll be miserable enough without worring about a dear john letter coming or no letters at all. She's probably a lot stronger than you give her credit for.
She'll move on and be just fine. She's also young and still has some innocence left. If she has her first time at 15 what does she have to look forward too.
You want to make a woman of her and leave just so you can get your rocks off. It selfish and not fair to her. Sex isnt the same for guys as its is for them.
She's going to feel used. There are no redo's. You only have one first time.
Im sure there are some things you have regrets about, and experiences you wish you could have again and feel the same joy. Let her hang on to hers at least until shes gets a little older, and save yourself a potential criminal record. Her daddy will never let you forget his little angels first time.
I understand your a guy and I guess you have "needs" and stuff,, but she is ONLY 15. You can't pressure her into ANYTHING without her being ready - and I have a 15 year old sister, and the thought of her having sx is AWFUL! She is way too young, and you should respect that.
However, if she is ready then yes you can (I guess) even though she is too young anyway.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.