Can you get permission to cheat in a marriage, without upsetting your significant other?

It doesn't matter whether your parents care about your marriage or not. They have no control over your marriage, and can not manage or fix it for you and your husband. Repairing it is up to you and him individually.

If you are dissatisfied, do not want to live with his parents (and I would not want to either!), and if your marriage has been "ugly", then it doesn't sound like the two of you are very compatible to me? Just my thoughts.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.