So that it would have two parents, and a stable home. That would most likely be best for the child. And then neither of you have to worry.
Going to court is insanely expensive, and it's not fair to the child to take it away from it's mother who it will have bonded to for 9 month.
How the Courts Decide In the 1989 Children’s Act, it states that when the court makes any decision about a child, the child’s welfare must be the court’s ‘paramount consideration’. There is a list of key factors they take into account when making their decision: Your child’s wishes and feelings. These will be given more consideration the older the child is.
Your child’s physical, emotional and educational needs. This covers both love & affection and food & housing. The likely effect of a change of circumstances on your child.
Their greatest concern here will be causing minimum disturbance to the child. Your child’s age, sex and background. This could include cultural, religious or disability needs.
If your child has suffered harm or is at risk of suffering harm. Recently, this also includes any domestic abuse the child has seen or heard. The parents’ capabilities with regard to the child’s needs.
This can include assessing whether the non-resident parent is capable of caring for the child. Or whether either parent is impaired by drink or drugs. The range of powers available to the court.
There are a range of orders a court can make. Sometimes they decide no order is necessary. More than half of all cases where residency is ordered by a court result in the mother being awarded sole residency.
Around one-fifth result in sole residency being awarded to the father (a significant increase from the 1990s). Joint residency is also awarded in approximately one-fifth of divorces.
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