Taking my Ex-Girlfriend to court for Full Custody once the baby is born, currently she is 2 months pregnant.?

Keep a copy of all those harassing texts and voice mails as they are proof of his harassment. And then talk to the police about getting a restraining order against your ex for harassment. Tell the police that he has threatened to have people watch you.

The police will explain to him that he has no right to know what goes on in your life and that he can't harass you or have others do it for him. If not, he will go to jail! And ask the police to keep him from moving back in with you as that isn't his home anymore.

Make sure they know you are afraid of him and that he has said that you are his, like it or not. I sure hope you already changed all the locks...if not, do so now and don't let him in your house to visit the kids anymore (make sure the kids know not to let him in). Go back to court and tell them that your ex is harassing you and you want to arrange to have the visitation transfer take place at a police station.

Oh, and he can't take custody of your children away from you...that too is just a meaningless threat! And by the way, he can't take you to court to force you to divulge any information about any of your friends. Controlling, abusive men think that they have this right but they do not.

Your friends are your business, not his, just as his are his business. And he is lying about filing those papers. No court would accept them in the first place.

He is just hoping you are too stupid to know any better. He is nothing more than threat and bluster and if I were you, I would stop giving him any information about your life period. Oh, and even if he did get some court official to accept his case, no judge will accept or make you tell your ex anything.

And as for him not paying child support, since he is being a total jerk right now, go back to court with a lawyer and ask that he be punished and made to pay. He will probably go back to jail and he may also lose his driver's license...which he will deserve. Hire a lawyer and get the visitation/child support all set up through the courts.

And then from now, no more Ms Nice Gal. If he doesn't pay up as he is supposed to, get the courts to put him in jail. Good luck and God bless!

Addendum: I am seriously afraid for you...especially about that bit where he says, "hes saying hes coming back home because im his like it or not." That isn't the statement of a man in his right man...that is the statement of a controlling abuser who considers you his property and he will do whatever is necessary to keep you to himself, even if he has someone else on the side. Contact these people right away for their help.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799. SAFE (7233) http://www.ndvh.org.

1) "i wanted to add he said I can serve up to six months in jail for not telling him where my friend stays. Also wanted to add im in kings county california,iff it helps since some states have different laws." He is lying through his teeth.

If you don't believe us, go ask the police. It is not a crime for you to keep your mouth shut about your friends. Please believe me: he is lying to you!

2) "im trying to keep violence away from the kids,if I don't open the door he has threten to kick the door down" Let him kick the door down. That is the best thing he could do. And while he is kicking down that door, you need to be on the phone to 911 telling them what he is doing.

If he is caught in the act, they can take him to jail, charge him with felony domestic violence in the presence of minors and send him to prison. And you can get a restraining order to keep him away from you. Please go talk to the police now.

You are being browbeaten, threatened, and harassed by a violent ex and the only place he belongs now is in prison. Take care.

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