Desperately trying to find a girlfriend... anyone got any ideas?

Yes. Get out there and do what you love to do (if going to a bar is your answer, nothing I say here will help except the last sentence). The girls that are around you then are the ones that can appreciate you the most.Be yourself no matter how strange you might be.

Girls that are attracted to the "real you" are less likely to want to try to change you to fit what they think you should be and love you for you you really are. Don't try to impress someone TOO much. Girls assume you're trying to anyway.

What better way to impress than being real? That way you won't have to keep up an act or fear losing them. Don't do something today you don't want to have to do for the rest of your life.

Example? If you buy them flowers today, expect to buy them flowers all year. They will associate you + love = flowers forever.

First impressions and consistent behavior are important to women. Don't pick a girlfriend based on what they did to attract you, because once you are together they will still be that girl. If her willingness to go out with you after talking for 10 minutes turns you on, you can't get mad at her for talking to other guys for a few minutes that she doesn't go out with.

(That's another reason none of these tips work in a bar. ) If you have a history of picking the wrong girls to go out with and they all seem to treat you the same way, consider this trick to finding the right girl for you: 1. Find a group of women and pick out 10 women you are immediately attracted to.

Now ignore them. 2. Find 10 women you know you could never be attracted to.

Now write them off. 3. Find 5 women you didn't even notice before.

Those are the ones with the most potential. Say hi, wave, do something random and wonderful. Make their day.

Pay attention to them. Listen to what they say. Keep eye contact and smile when they talk.

Some people will say that when you're "desperate" it's the worst time to look for love because your body and past experiences will betray you. You'll just end up taking up with anyone that looks twice at you. I tend to agree.

If you follow my advice here you'll find a good person with great potential for the long term. If you're just looking for "right now", do the opposite of what I said - and drink the whole time! :).

For me Boys come to me when I'm not looking. So really I never look and actually I tend to have to beat them off with sticks. Which is so weird cause I used to try so hard to impress boys then eventually they just started coming to me.

But seriously a relationship isn't everything bond with your friends while you can cause sometimes relationships can kill friendships.

Stop trying so hard and be yourself. If girls see you are desperate, they will probably run away.

I have some ideas =. Whenever you are desperatly looking for a girlfriend you should really put yourself out there, yes it may take a bit of time and alot of effort but its worth it. Go to dating websites like datehookup.com okcupid.com craigslist.org and type in what your looking for as in on the .

Com websites listed they both are 100% free I know from experience fill out your profile and click to search people in your area or whatever you want and email them saying like there I think your really cute and I would like to talk more. Copy and Paste it and send to all the girls that catch your eye. On the .

Org site it has where you can search for dating or casual encounters you go to the ads people have posted and reply to them if you would like. Of course you could go to a club, but I doubt you will find anything "Girlfriend" wise just a one night stand. You should try getting with the girls that you normally wouldnt.

Like the shy girls, Never had a bf girls exc. Be very sweet and show that you really would care and not hurt them. Tell a girl shes beautiful not hot.

And don't rush things. Coming from an girl this is what a girl really wants. Start out talking on im, texting before you rush things into it.

Good Luck =.

The best way is for you to get social. Meeting more people increases your chances. Many places attract girls, like the cinema, night clubs, the mall, sport clubs.

But don't expect to get hitched from the first day. Simply try to enjoy the company of people and friends, and she'll come before you know it.

Well, Set out to make many friends...who are girls... and get to know them.. then later on if they appear your type and you know they are single ask them out :) .. Is the best I can give then if the answer is no, you at least know you still have some good new friends who sometimes like to help others in playing match making :) .. They may know good single girls as well.. But always be yourself... Sometimes dates happen out of friends other times it does not... And in the end if I do not find the date at least you will have alot of new friends :) . Look in places where people with the same interests hang out, like hobby stores, or go to outings where people with similar interests go,.. go chill out at a beach or a park.. Many girls are always looking for the one they like at a beach :) ..As far as girls go they look everywhere :) .. So just be yourself and be relaxed.. but if you are nervous they understand remember the girls are usually just as nervous :) . Park, Pizza place, rollerskating, clubs, bars, dance lessons, If interested in arts and crafts taking a crafting class, or gardening.. the most important thing is always to be true and be yourself, impressing fronts are good to some extent but you want the girl to like who you are.. and not an act.

- DNatureofDTrain.

Do what you love best. If you're a sports fan go to games, or sports bars. If you love art, go to museums... there are women everywhere but the trick is to find someone you would have something in common with.

Perfect who you are adn what makes you happy and you will find that while you are doing those things, you will meet people who like doing those same things. Hope this helps best regards.

The answer is simple just get out there and start doing things you enjoy. What I mean by this is join clubs or programs you are interested in. For example if you like to paint you might consider joining an art class this puts you in an environment in which you can enjoy yourself and meet people of similar interest.

You can also start going to concerts. Concerts? Yes there is a lot of girls at concerts plus its a great atmosphere in which you and a lucky lady can generate a great moment by rocking out to your favorite band.

Go to bars! I guess this is the best or worst suggestion. If you want a serious girlfriend I wouldn't necessarily go looking for one in a bar, but thats just me.

If your going to a bar make sure you are ok with it because you want to enjoy yourself so she can see you for you. Online dating! Never tried it, but know tons of people that have great success with it.

Before signing up for those expensive sites try something that is free just to try it out and see how you like it. Ask your friends! Great way to meet a girl or get some dates is let your friends know that you are single and looking.

Specially for lack of a better term chick friends, because they hold great power in getting your foot in the door before you even go on a date with one of there friends. I guess the last thing would be to just hit on any girl that you think is attractive or girlfriend material. Really if you don't put yourself out there all you can do is wait and maybe thats your answer, but if that is not than try one of my suggestions.

Try getting out more, or if you want to use the computer I recommend true.com This site gives you a free 7 day trial and if you have a webcam you can use it as do many other people on this site. You can have 4 to 8 webcam pictures on your site while your chatting. And if that doesn't work then do like me and wait for the right time, there is someone out there for everyone and you will find that person one day if it is meant to be.

Good Luck.

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