Do guys ever STOP being HORNY?

Turning down sex offered to you on a plate won't get you laid, I don't understand what that's got to do with you being a good guy though. You're basically saying - I get offers for sex but not when I feel like it (personally I think if you're doing this more than just rarely then it might be something else and you're just making excuses, performance anxiety? Gay?) If i'm single and I get offered I damn well take it, doesn't make me a bad guy, just a good guy that got laid.

People meet at clubs/pubs because everyone's nervous about chatting so they get drunk etc.. what's there to get nervous about, you chat some girl if you fail there's tons more all around you, eventually you'll find some skank with no standards, it's pretty easy. Stop overthinking everything, stop caring about what random strangers think about you. Do you get nervous about what you type on the internet?

I just transpose that ideal to real life. Unless you want to create some kind of idealised view of yourself of course, idealised as in you don't go out to meet girls have sex, just have fun. If that was true why put this question up in the first place?

Only saying cos I can smell my own ^^ not trying to be obnoxious just wanna get my man laid here.

Of course it will, as long as you're hot. That whole thing about bad boys is a stupid made up cliché. I would have sex with a good guy- whatever that means, as long as he's hot and I'm horny.

By the way, there's a difference between being a 'good guy' and being unable flirt with girls. I'm sure there are a loads of 'good guys' that know how to flirt and get laid. The problem is not that you are a 'good guy', the problem is that you are nervous and don't know how to flirt with girls.

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