I'm not going kid you lots of men would love to have a trophy wife on their arm-(so to speak). We have those males but fortunately there are more then one kind of male and you have to look around until you've found the right one for you.
It's genuineness in the girl; the ability to be comfortable and open and sincere. Lots of attractive girls are so wrapped up in themselves that the facade is obvious. Trouble is, the "true inside" is seldom revealed because girls are too timid and -- believe it or not -- so are the boys.
Neither can simply be just who they really are. So a stalemate occurs and nothing happens. Also, it isn't all boys -- it's a certain boy the girl wants.
If you gravitate toward sleaze that's what you'll end up with.
In the beginning it may be looks that attract people together, but if they're looking for a "serious" relationship they'll be (need to be) attracted to more than looks.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.