I think you are confusing hating with not respecting.....I agree that hating a whole gender is a little off base. Now if the majority of women you encounter don't act in ways that command respect (like most men encounter on a daily basis) then it is certainly justifiable to not have/lose respect for them. You should give each woman you meet the benefit of the doubt, but there is nothing wrong with being aware of red-flags when they pop up.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.