Do the men here understand that fat shaming?

The doctor is not fat shaming. Fat shaming is teasing or offending someone just because he or she is fat. The doctor is pointing out that if she doesn't eat better and lose that fat, she won't live her life to the fullest.

As you already should know, being in that obese range is extremely bad to one's health.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.