Do you put yourself before others or others before yourself?

Gosh, no! People like people. People will like you even if your side profile does look goofy!

You cannot stop them even by showing them the less attractive side of your body! There's no safety! Just kidding.

But I'm serious that people will like you regardless. They will just like you less and less over time if you wear them down with your insecurity - with your doubt in their goodwill, your lack of belief in their sincerity and friendship towards you, your constant demands for reassurance and leadership, and your conviction that nothing you do matters and therefore you cannot hurt or bother anyone even if you neglect them or fail to return their friendship enthusiastically. Not to say you do all those things, but many insecure people do them.

I hope this helps. Of course you should try to find ways to build up your confidence. You might start by accepting that you look the way you look and if people don't like it they will just ignore you, and you don't have to worry about them anymore.

And realize that the way you see yourself is distorted, and others see you the ways that you see them - much more kindly and less critically than you see yourself. Talk if you feel like it, camouflage and watch if you feel like it - it's OK to be you.

It definitely makes it easier to like you when you are comfortable with yourself. Ask yourself why you are so insecure. You will most likely find that you have no reason to be insecure but are afraid to be yourself or have a very different attitude than others.

So you may be afraid to show people you are interested/uninterested about most things in life. It's fine.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.