If all I do is fight with someone then I'd be wrong to call that relationship "love". Some people grow up around arguing parents and think that that's what love is. Nothing some good counseling can't fix.
Breaking up with someone means that something was "broken" about the relationship and that's why it ended. "Feeling" in love with them after the fact is based on a fantasy, not who that person really is. You should move on and find someone to love that doesn't need to argue to express it.
If you find that you only pick someone that you can fight with to be in a relationship then the problem is yours, not theirs, and you should get help finding out why fighting with someone is necessary to your happiness. Love should never be "fought" for. It's a choice that two people share or they don't."Fighting" for someone's love is what's done in the movies, not real life.
Find someone that shares your feelings, that you don't have to argue with and it isn't just a cool fantasy in your mind. Happily ever after is possible, but you have to find the right person to do it with. I've been friends with my wife for 18 years and married for 7.
The ONLY time we've ever fought was soon after we first met and she asked me to make a promise then a month later asked me to break it. I didn't. She got mad.
I yelled at her for asking me to make it in the first place if she wasn't serious. She said I was right and apologized, what she wanted wasn't good for her anyway.Done. Have never argued since.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.