I do not condone any abuse from a parent to their children, but I have almost come to think that the long term effects of psychological abuse, is worse than any physical abuse.
How could you go behind their backs and cast them down like that?! What kind of friend does that? Such a horrible friend!
You don't know what their lives are like and how the children behave. They could act a lot differently when you aren't around. Back seat parenting is always the worst.
And if you don't have any kids then that's just salt in the wounds. You need to seriously mind your own damn business. You have no part of how they handle their kids.
Handle your own kids if you even have any... "I don't believe in how they parent so I'll ram and force my opinions into them." That's basically what you want to do. Stop being such a bigot.
Open your mind and if you can't stop being close minded, then just be quiet! Then again it's better your friend know your true colors. I'd say just tell her straight no sugar coating.
Your friends deserves to know the truth and deserves to have the option to break off the friendship.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.