Does anyone realize that no one can prove anything or know anything for that matter?

The VOWS state "For better or for worst, in sickness and in health, for rich or poor"... (and whatever the rest is). Most people DO NOT think about what they ARE COMMITTING too. They say "I Do." because that's what everyone does and You're SUPPOSE too.

Be VERY CAREFUL who/when you say "I Do" to, because most people find out… They really DIDN'T mean, "till death do us part". In the "Dating Stage" is when you're suppose to find out if you are compatible. Even if things change down the road between you and you don't workout as a couple, you should have had the times (memories) that make you feel like you didn't waste your time with the wrong partner.

If you are NOT sure of a person. Don't guess. The curiosity will only kill/torture you.

You do not get into a RELATIONSHIP so you can DATE. You DATE to see IF you want get into a RELATIONSHIP It's nice to be in a relationship when it works smoothly, but the time ALWAYS comes when it's time to WORK "at" the relationship. People are Personalities that change as time goes on.

People are NOT an ITEM you purchase and will stay the same FOREVER. Commitment isn't a WORD, it's WORK. Focused Work to your mate, BUT not only your mate, YOU NEED TIME for yourselves so you don't suffocate each other.

NOBODY wants to be in a relationship so they stop growing and living. In your 20's a new world opens up. In your 30's you start to establish yourself.

In your 40's, and up you settle in and enjoy what ever you have accomplish "Alone" or "With Someone". The term, life partner isn't found in just one or a few relationships. It's a collection of what you have experienced in ALL RELATIONSHIPS.

Family, Friends, Love, Casual and Business. ALL RELATIONSHIPS, so that "Till Death Do You Part" DOES NOT end in Divorce. If you ever get a brand new car… time yourself to see how long/short it takes for it to become "No Big Deal." to YOU.

Most people learn about VALUE, after REGRET. Even in a FRIENDSHIP Relationship. One of the BIGGEST mistakes people make with each other (not only couples) is not establishing communication and understanding.

Usually one of the two doesn't want to make waves, so when there is confusion or a misunderstanding "a raging sea and massive hurricanes" take place between them and sometimes ends them both. You need to learn to talk and establish the ground rules for possibilities (like rumors, cheating, mistakes, misunderstandings, mood swings, personal space, burnout, boredom and privacy). Taking a Break from Each Other.

What does THAT MEAN TO EACH OF YOU? If you don't, YOU WILL ALWAYS Bump Heads when these unexpected things show up. YOU are NEVER suppose to accommodate people, you don't know very well.

You are suppose to let "them" get to know who and how you are. They can decide if they want to be around you. Being a puppet, you might make people like you, but you have to keep being different every time you want to please everyone.

NO BODY RESPECTS A PUPPET, because they (people) don't know how FAKE you will be next time or at different times. IF You have something to say or ask… do it. You won't happy "babysitting" people in your age group anyway.

People who are in a Relationship, doesn't mean they are Happy in a relationship. It only means they have a Companion. If Married couples can cheat and get a divorce because they aren't happy.

Couples in a relationship that is NOT working can continue searching and break up to be with someone more Compatible. Maybe it takes months or years to find out you are with the wrong person, but there are NO VOWS taken to be together, only an agreement that can Fade, Change or Die. A Relationship is a trail run to marriage.

To see how well you get along and work together as a team/couple. There are NO GUARANTEES, only an experience.

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