Your wife can marry the guy once you two have divorced, and then she can try for a green card through him, but her chances of getting one are slim to none. Next time you see her, don't argue or say things like "I'm going to contact USCIS." Just do it and don't tell her about it.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.