To thine own self be true. " The meaning of Polonius' words to his son have not changed since Shakespeare wrote them about 400 years ago. It is hard sometimes not to get caught up in others' insecurities, particularly if they are your partner, wife etc.However, when you are aware or "in tune" with yourself it is easier to see them for what they are - black holes.
Just like a real black hole they will suck you in if you're not watching or listening carefully. I'm currently reading a book by Dr Russ Harris - "The Happiness Trap", that could help with the head talk.
Be yourself and let your instincts guide you. Others will learn from your example.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.