Getting revenge on former friend?

Getting revenge on former friend I know I was stupid,so please don't remind me. A former friend of mine who's the only breadwinner in her family (her husband being a total loser) needed a vehicle,so stupid me, I took out a loan of which I've seen only $140 paid back. Not to mention,her stepdaughter broke something of mine and has made no effort to pay me back.

And her ghetto stepson stole and gave away my bicycle. Their father has done nothing to make them pay me back, of course. I would like some sweet revenge.

Any ideas? Asked by GinaD 5 days ago Similar questions: revenge friend Entertainment > Anime.

I appreciate the fast responses and advice so far. But you see, I work in the same building as her, her husband comes into work to pick her up and I STILL owe about $1,800 on this darn loan. It's so frustrating!

GinaD 5 days ago .

You don't need revenge, you need your money. Take her to small claims court. And stay away from those people.

I'd say no. Go on with your life and leave this person in your past. The memory of him/her will fade, and the hatred will too.

It's not worth it--seeking revenge and taking it changes who you are, and not for the better. Behave with dignity and walk away.

You might be able to get the money back if you can prove that you loaned it to her and she agreed to pay you back.

1. You are really angry at yourself for putting yourself in this position. Play this forward with yourself and do not put you in this position again.

There are valid reasons why some folks cannot get loans. Don't loan them your good credit. #2.

You could look into small claims court. Maybe just filling the paper work would scare. #3.

Quit the name-calling. It doesn't help; it makes you sound small--and you are the one who got you in this mess. #4.

Forget the thing that step-daughter broke. #5. Forget bicycle.

If you could proof that they'd be arrested. Since you can't, no matter how much you KNOW it. The bikes gone.

#6. The father isn't responsible for their loans or behavior...even if he taught it to them. We are all responsible for our own actions.

#7. Revenge isn't right. Why act like them?

Two wrongs, don't make a right. And it takes soooooo much energy. #8.

Call it Karma or 'what goes around comes around. ' But you really don't want to set yourself up for more heartache. Look around...see that angry guy in your office?

He sends anger out and gets it back twofold. #9. You will be seeking revenge on others for their own un-wiseness, and it would probably make things worse for you, in the long run..Your anger and vitriol is ONLY hurting you.It's like an acid, and it erodes the container (you).

You can't change the past--you giving them way too much, when I'm sure there were lots of signs you should not do so. So make a note to self to value yourself more in the future. And let go what you cannot make happen.

Revenge is not sweet. You are to bless the enemy...then maybe they can pay you back. Ask God to help them.

Don't call them names. Whatever you say/think...may happen to you.

You're giving her free rent in your brain thinking about revenge. Try to let it go, forgive her, or make new friends and move on. Sounds like she needs compassion more than payback in this phase of her life.

Try reasonable persuasion first. Other than the loan, it's a case of he said, she said.

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