Great first date. Totally a connection. Nice good night kiss. Now no phone call. Should I call him?

If it has been only a day or two, I think you probably want to give it another day or two. It's unfortunate that some people feel the need to play these sorts of games to seem disinterested, but no one wants to come off as over-eager or desperate. If it has been more than 4 or 5 days, I think it might be time to make a decision.

You have two options: (1) Forget about him. It's fairly safe to assume that if you haven't heard from the guy in almost a week after a date, that he's just, to borrow a phrase, "not that into you." Who knows why...It's pointless to even think about.

Whatever the reason, making a clean break and getting back out there will ensure you don't waste any more energy on him. (It's also safe to assume that if he's kind of thoughtless and inconsiderate now, it will only get worse the more dates you go on.) (2) Call him and find out what's up. It is possible, as @cheapgamer pointed out, that he just lost your number or got really really super-busy or felt shy or whatever, and that you could just call him and set things right easily.

If you really enjoyed his company and feel strongly that you two are a good match, I'd suggest this course of action. The worst thing that could happen is that he makes up some excuse not to see you again, or tells you that he's just not that interested, and then you know and can move on without thinking about it any more. Either way, just remember that dating is tough and not everyone is going to be a good match for you, and that it has absolutely nothing to do with who you are as a person or anything you did.

People are just fickle. Good luck.

Probably he has lost your number. You must think positively and give him an opportunity. Send to him a message of text that it says " Thank you for the wonderful night that you gave me.

I will never forget it " Make It like that. He will call you. Leoleonard from Spain.

Truth is, he may not be that into you right now, but that doesn't mean all is lost. I've had some less than positive first experiences both with dating and with friendships that have later turned out very well. Sorry to phrase it this way, but he might just need to be a little more sold.

As long as you closely monitor your own actions to make sure you don't come across as too interested or desperate, taking the initiative to call him shouldn't be a problem.

A better thing would be to engineer a "by chance" meeting. Then if he's not interested you are in control. But if he says "I'm so glad to see you - my phone was eaten by a dog and I couldn't find your number" then you have a cool story for the grandkids.

No. If it's great for him too, chances are he'll gonna call you. Be patient, you'll see.

Peace!

Just call, even of the date was recent. In modern society there's no shame in showing interest from either sex. A short, "I just wanted to say I had nice time with you the other night and would be open to doing it again some time" won't hurt anything.

Even if he hangs up on you it costs you nothing and you gain the information that he's not worth thinking about again. If he liked you, a short low-key phone call won't turn him off and if he doesn't like you the call can't exactly make things worse. Don't try to pin him down on how he feels about you, keep him on the phone forever or press him for another date immediately as that would scare anyone off.

A brief and casual "that was nice, let's do it again some time" makes it clear where you stand without pressure and without making you too vulnerable or desperate. If he's a decent guy and if he liked you, chances are fair that he's trying to decide what amount of time should pass before it's appropriate to contact you without coming off like a stalker. I've never had the patience for this sort of uncertainty and the direct approach hasn't seemed to hurt my chances.

If by some fluke he lost your number or is too shy to make the next move your call might save the day. If not, it probably wasn't meant to be anyway and you'll find out all the sooner and be able to move on. The source link seems to support my view.

Yes. Call him. Forget all the games about counting days--and don't get me wrong, I understand those games and the reasons why they're played.

But I fully support you saying "To hell with the games! " and just call him. He very well might be flattered that you were interested enough to call, and eagerness doesn't always translate to desperation.

Or if it does and the guy freaks, then good! Let him freak and run. He shouldn't be intimidated by a woman who uses the phone!

Some other reasons to call: 1. He may have lost your number. Really.

He may be kicking himself right now. 2. He may be playing the very games that so many people play, waiting you out.3.

He may have been desperately thinking about you, but completely bogged down by work and unable to call you at a good time. So you need to break the ice and give him and excuse to take a break!4. ...He's not that into you.

But now, by calling, instead of wondering....and waiting...and wondering....and waiting, you'll KNOW. You'll instantly get that cold vibe over the phone and you can let him go. Now, if you call and leave a message, then that's it.

That's as much as you need to do to encourage him. Either he'll call you back or he won't. Either way, within a week's time of leaving a voicemail, you'll get some kind of message or another, so to speak.Be assertive!

Be firm! Take a chance! Take your romantic destiny into your own hands!

Good luck.

Only if you like him. He may have gotten busy, he may have misplaced your number, he may be feeling a bit shy . .. You may never know which unless you call.

Speaking from a guy's perspective a guy wouldn't call under the following circumstances: 1. He's not into you. 2.

He's not into anyone right now. 3. He's rude and inconsiderate and not into you.

Notice I didn't include in that list: 1. He's really into you but totally doesn't know it yet. 2.

He's really into you but is awkward on the phone. 3. He's really into you but doesn't have good manners.

If you had a good night kiss and totally connected there is NO REASON why he wouldn't call. Sorry to make this rough, but I think this is a case of two people having two different experiences at the same tim.e.

If its a few days only, don't worry about it. It just a first date.

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