Have I waited too long? [girls] - boy problems?
I know this is going to sound rather cliche, but honesty really is the best policy. If you are really interested in this guy, you certainly do NOT want to slip into the 'friend' trap. I know it's a bit difficult confronting someone about your feelings, but keep in mind...he's dropping hints too!
It seems to me you guys are in the same boat here. He's sat about wondering how you feel about him and if he has a chance beyond friendship. And he's probably concerned that you'll reject him were he to approach you on a romantic level.
And even worse, he's probably terrified that if he does let you know he likes you beyond friendship the establish relationship with you will be jeopardized if anything negative occurs were he to decide to be upfront with you. Here you are, sat about thinking the same thing! Start dropping larger hints for starters.
Compliment him. Do it sincerely though. You don't want to leave him wondering if you are only joking around.
Make it a point to be near him. If possible add a bit of seduction to the contact you have with him. Find a reason to whisper something to him.
Bite your lip and look away only to return your gaze again. Lean towards him when you speak to him. Touch his shoulder when you're talking.
Don't leave room for him to question where you truly stand. After you've dropped enough bigger hints, give him a bit of cheekiness. Say something along the lines of, "I was thinking you should take me to a movie.
We can watch something scary, but I'm warning you...you might have to hold me during the movie! " Honey, if he misses all that...Lord, find you another man. ;).
Even if you are just friends you can still have a good time together. Ask him in a casual way and see where it goes from there. After all if you don't try you may never know.
Yes ask him to go to the party! Great idea. If anything some truth SHOULD come out...That is how I have began with every boyfriend I have had, invite them along to do something, not necessarily alone but something different were we can let loose a little and just have a bunch of fun.
Good luck!
You should do sticky eyes, where you hold eye contact like they are glued together and then slowly pull them away like you can't look away but you must. Also of course, ASK HIM TO THE PARTY, jeez why haven't you yet, you need to get on that NOW. Just walk up and say "hey want to go to a party with me?
Should be fun but I don't want to go alone. " Have the utmost sense of casualnessosity at all times.
Just be up front and ask. Either way he answer it will remove all this unneccessary stress from your life.
We take each other for granted but slowly over time the distance can grow and before long the need is there to feel connected again. Improve the way you talk to each other. Communication is a vital part of any relationship.
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