I can't say that I'm jealous of my husband's hobby except for the fact that he occasionally goes away for the day or overnight to play in tournaments. For me to go anywhere, I would first have to arrange for care for the daughter. Although, she is getting older now and he can handle her for multiple hours in a row, I just might be able to pull one of those day or overnight trips off and not have to drop the baby off at my mom's.
Other than that, we also game. I think he is actually a bit jealous of me because my character is further along than his. I do the raiding and upper game stuff while he continually likes to level up new characters looking for the perfect one to play.
I just like to get on, hack around for a bit and leave the game and do other stuff. Or I get on, raid for a few hours and be done with it. Meanwhile he is struggling to get his gear, etc etc.So it might be the other way around for us.
Neither of us is so hooked on the game that we can't go without it. We don't plan stuff around raids. I just won't go.
So I'm jealous of his time away and he might be jealous of my superior character in game.
That's actually a really interesting question! However, that's never really something I've had to deal with personally. If you are particularly interested in something you're partner is doing, there is likely some way you can become URL1 makes sense for there to be at least some mutual involvement in both partners' hobbies, at least in my mind.
Hmm I suppose I've been jealous of things that arose during his hobby. My husband is very into DnD as well as does RP Threads online. Both require he play character rolls and sometimes those characters do.. things in line with the character that I would not approve of.
For instance when your standing in the kitchen and you hear your husband detailing how his character enchants an elf maiden to be his sex slave and then has her fight to her death so he can pillage the carcasses.. you get a little jealous. Lol It's hard to understand that when one chooses an alignment they play that alignment if they are a good player and don't necessarily do the things they would in real life. It's also rough when female join into his games and interact with his player in a less than platonic way.
I've given some icy words to some for that.. when it becomes excessive and clear they are hitting on my husband and using a silly game to do so.
I think a lot of people (probably mostly women) are sick to death of "competing" with an X-Box, PS3, or whatever. I could definitely do with less video game playing, but mostly because I hate watching them. I've been jealous of the fact that my boyfriend is artistic and can make art, but I don't mind the time he spends on it, because I know he likes it :).
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