Have you ever cheated, been cheated on, and cheated with......?

The only people I know who have been able to get past a spouse cheating are when both people go to marriage counseling together and work through it. I've met thousands of couples but I've never met a couple who were able to get completely over adultery by themselves without counseling. Verbal abuse is a whole other thing and shouldn't be tolerated.

Of course counseling may help this problem as well if he wants to work through it. My advise is go to go to marriage counseling but also see the counselor for one on one sessions as well. Find out what you want, find out what you truly need to do.

Only then will you have your answer. Good luck!

No, you don't........it will be hard to ever trust him again....physically and verbally abusive to you still! Most people will ask you "how can you stay with him?" Sometimes, you have no other choices.

You have to weigh the pros and cons of your marriage. Your daughter is being hurt no matter what you do. If the situation continues, and you have tried to reconcile, you may not have any other choice but to leave.

But be sure this is the right choice. Can you and your daughter manage on your own financially? Would you have the support of your family?

Would your husband be more abusive if you left? Maybe you should get some professional counceling if you feel your marriage can be saved. Good luck.

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