Good friendships do not happen by accident. They're cultivated with loving care. You've cultivated a few prior to multiple sclerosis (MS), and you'll cultivate some along the way.
Cultivating means you must be a good friend back. When you enjoy periods of good health, you'll remember to extend yourself to those friends you can call on when you need to. Many times friends of a person with MS feel they can't impose by asking a favor.
You may have to encourage them or volunteer to help them. It doesn't have to be a big favor, just a thoughtful one like, "There's a great sale on pantyhose at the mall today. I'm headed over there this afternoon.
Can I pick you up a few pairs?" Thinking of others in this way will make you feel less self-conscious asking others to do favors when you really need them.
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