Having MS, will I burden my friends by asking favors from them?

Don't be overly fearful of burdening your friends. The best friends you have will be calling you to see what they can do when they sense you need a hand. If they don't sense you need a hand, you must learn to ask for one.

Friends are friends, not mind readers. They have their own full lives with their own families, other friends, and other responsibilities. They are not spending their free time wondering what they can do for you today.

But if they are true friends, they'll be more than happy to lend you a hand if you need one. However, you have to ask. This is one of the biggest problem areas for people who have multiple sclerosis (MS).

There is a tendency to "tough it out" rather than ask anything of anyone. This is not an easy issue, but it's one of the more important ones to resolve within yourself. Asking someone's help doesn't have to mean an erosion of your independence - especially if it gives you the energy at the end of the day to have a better quality of life.

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