Help. My 69yr old fit mum says she will live in a nursing home if I don't give up my life to live with her?

You should tell more family about this . You should not take all responsibility on yourself. Try to find a balance between your life and his.

Give as much of your time and energy which does ot makes you feel used up. If he has money use caretakers etc and you can visit and call him regularly. This is the best time of your life.

Use it for your career and finding a match etc. Do only as much as you can happily and then stop, others have responsibility as well. You are definitely not selfish dear. You are a gem.

God Bless you. Good luck.

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