How can I help change the behavior of my child with ADHD?

If your child has attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), think of your role in parenting as being like that of a coach. You may need to say every day, multiple times to your child with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), "Talk in your normal voice" when he is whining or "Talk it through" when he starts to act out his anger. Coaches don't punish the person in training for not executing techniques correctly.

A coach understands that repetition of feedback is necessary to take the trainee to the next level. The coach also understands that when the trainee does make a developmental leap, there will be yet another stylistic or technical element that will need constant repetition. Also, notice that the coach calmly and clearly states to the player what he needs to do.

The coach does not yell about what the person needs to stop doing. For example, the coach doesn't scream in frustration, "Stop straightening your legs!" This strategy doesn't work because it doesn't tell the player what he should do.

It doesn't solve a problem; it chides, and depending on tone, may even humiliate. The other thing is that you get what you aim for. You increase what you focus on.

If you put your attention on straight legs, even if you're saying don't do it, you will likely get more straight legs. Think how much more effective it would be to use consistent, gentle reminders to the player to bend his legs. A coach knows that even with constant repetition, if problems persist, then they need to do some problem solving.

Rather than blaming herself or the player for not following directions, she sets out to discover why that player is unable to follow the guidance given.

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