How can someone call you possessive and jealous when caught in the act of cheating?

Petstrel is correct. It's just flak thrown up in the air to distract you and send you off spinning off-topic. And it could be about anything.

Fighting over money for instance. When closing in on a point a 'straw man' is thrown at you like a curve ball. Such as "You are so like you mother!" (You never met my mother!

)That's a Ad hominem (attack the person)For more logical fallacies:Ad ignorantiamArgument from authority (bible thumper: Wife should obey husband)Taking a programming class such as Java would improve thinking on the spot while arguing with a person instead of 24 hours later of brooding over it and figuring out " - that's don't make sense! ) - Worked for me.My spouse said the class help me to argue better (with him! ).

It's a lame excuse they're trying to use to blame you for their cheating. As if cheating isn't bad enough - then trying to imply it's your fault because you're 'possessive' etc... My advice would be get out of the relationship, you're not being treated right.

Blame game.. trying to defend himself/herself... They would give excuses. But there's no real need to sit through that torture. There's no point in waiting to hear what the cheater has to say.No explanation can patch up a broken trust.

Because they don't like taking responsibility for anything. So shifting the blame on you makes them blameless.

When somebody is cheating in order for them to not feel guilty about they must first shift the blame on somebody else. It become easier to justify their action when somebody else is at fault. They have the problem, and not you!

I don't know but somehow they always try turn it around on you. Say you found some really bad texts between him and another woman...that makes you the bad guy for checking his phone...It's crazy.

It's the defensive mechanism. It's better for them to make you think you have a problem, not them.

They want to make you feel like it's your fault they cheated so they won't have to change their ways, and possibly also so you won't leave them over it. (If they get you to blame yourself, you won't be mad at them, therefore you'll stay with them. ) Deep down they know it's them and not you, they're just not mature enough to admit it.

The person is cheating on there partner only. The two have to deal with it with God and no one else.

Someone call you possessive and jealous when caught in the act of cheating the way he act....

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.