How can you tell if your boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse is cheating on you? What are some tell tale signs?

I suppose your gut feeling is actually the most important sign. I can definitely see, however, that most people would want some more evidence before they made the accusation. In general, I would say these are bad signs (especially if there's a lot of them): 1.

A sudden change in mood 2. Being overly protective of their cellphone, making sure you can never see it. Ditto for the computer 3.

Going out with their "friends" and not inviting you, or suddenly being very, very busy at work 4. Their friends (especially female friends! ) avoid you or act weird around you (they know) 5.

They suddenly start using cash, rather than traceable plastic. If you have a joint account, you may notice unexplained ATM withdraws 6. They start working out a lot or are suddenly concerned with their weight or appearance 7.

They start going to the "gym" at weird hours (how convenient--they were gone AND have a reason why they took a shower before coming home! ) 8. You get any strange phone calls, but especially the tell-tale hang up 9.

They start accusing YOU of cheating (a guilty conscience often sparks suspicion, and it's a good diversion--suddenly you're on the defense). I'm certainly not above a little snooping or "checking up" on a spouse I have a bad feeling about. In my mind, there's nothing wrong with swinging by the bar they claim they'll be at with their friends, etc.

Trust your gut. If you feel it it's happening. Look lfor lost time and money.

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