This can be tough! It once took me three years to get the gecko of my dreams, but the wait was worth it. Hopefully, if you set your mind to it, you can have a guinea pig in a matter of months.
(Seems like forever, I know, but the longer you wait, the sweeter the pet will be in the end, and the more likely you'll enjoy it). One of the main reasons parents don't want pets is because they are afraid that you'll get bored after a month or so. Your mom clearly hates the thought of having to take care of this pet herself when you move on to something different.
Here are some ways to show her you plan on taking care of this pet... For life! 1. Wait until she is calm and not busy.
Ask her (without a whine) why she doesn't want you to have a pet rat. If she simply says "they're gross!", then ask again what she dislikes the most. Explain that domesticated rodents rarely carry diseases, so nobody will get sick.
They do not roam the sewers, and they do not eat trash and waste. You must be calm and collected when explaining the difference between domestic animals and wild animals. Also add that you will keep the animal in your room and that she will never have to see or deal with it.
If her answer is something like "I don't want to take care of it", explain that this is not just a passing phase and that you intend to dedicate years to this animal. If she just refuses to answer or listen, then you must be patient. Do not loose your cool and throw a fit, as this will only make her more firm in declining.
2. Show that you already are responsible. Just getting a pet won't make you instantly responsible.
If you aren't responsible or willing to work now, eventually you will grow lazy and neglect the pet. Act agreeably, and do whatever your parents ask. Don't make a fuss or complain.
Clean your room, empty the dishwasher, vacuum the living room, take out the trash, etc. without being asked. In fact, offer to do an extra chore. Spend less time playing on the computer, watching TV, texting, etc. Limit yourself to less than three hours a day on technology.
When you have a pet, you'll need free time to play with it and give it love. Plus, parents aren't as willing to cooperate with a couch potato. 3.
Research! Write a paper, or put together a powerpoint on why you want a guinea pig. Be as informative as possible, while adding a bit of flavor or fun with cute pictures.
Put a lot of effort into it, because this could be your chance to shine. Show your parents how dedicated you are, and how much this pet means to you. Be prepared to answer any questions.
(Like: "How often do you have to clean the cage? Does it smell? Why do you want one?
Don't they make a lot of noise? Do they bite?") If they refuse to see what you've put together, print out a copy and put it somewhere we're they'll notice it (on a pillow, etc.) Don't get too pushy, though! 4.
Back off! Try to only mention the pet once or twice a week. No begging, as this turns parents off.
Be sure to bring the topic up (in a diplomatic way) every once in a while to let them know that you are still interested. 5. Earn money.
Figure out how much it will cost to buy a guinea pig (cage, bedding, food, toys, vet, etc.) You should assume that you will pay for every cent of this pet with your own money. Your parents will be more likely to listen if you buy it all yourself. 6.
Talk. Ask them why they feel the way they do, then listen. Don't argue with what they say.
Present solutions to what they are opposed to. If they say "end of discussion" or "The answer is No. Period." then drop the subject.
Good luck, and I hope you can get the pet of your dreams!
Guinea pigs make great pets! They are highly social animals and should be kept in pairs or small groups. Explain to your mom what you told us.
Also offer to pay for the guinea pigs and their supplies. Make sure you have a little bit of money put aside for vet bills-if you have any. (it's best you get atleast two since they need another guinea pig because they are very social.) Tell your mom you will be cleaning the cage once a week and offer to keep them in your room.
Maybe make her a powerpoint or write an essay on guinea pigs and show her cute pictures. Or "accidently" be looking at guinea pig pictures or doing research in front of her. Good luck and hope I helped!
Threaten her with animal cruelty laws. It is the law that you must take sick animals to the vet or seek treatment. And I am not trying to be cruel or mean, but if you cannot afford the vet costs, you do not need the pet.
Especially four!
That's really sad. For everyone, including your parents. They probably do want to help, but financially cannot.
It sounds like a respiratory infection to me. If it's not an infection, you should try finding a mild antibiotic if you can find one online. If it is a full formed infection, there is not much you can do other than go to the vet.
Keep her away from the other guinea pigs as she might be contagious. Wash your hands before and after handling her as to not spread illness to your other gpigs. If you can't find an antibiotic, give her a multivitamin and hope for the best unless your parents come up with the money for the vet.
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