I am now at the ripe old age of 15 but I had a bf from the age of 13 to nearly the end of 14. Although I remained a virgin until about 3 months before we split, we stayed at each others houses many times. I'm not sure whether it was because: we had our first sleepover at 13 (too young for anything bad) the fact that we slept in different rooms with no fuss (though in the day we were slightly more sneaky) or that he was a well known goody goody (to our parents at least ;D) Be on your best behaviour and settle for sleeping in separate rooms, although I doubt you will stay together until you are 16 if you do your parents might trust you enough for sharing a room if you show no interest in sex.
As for that, seriously, after the first couple of times it gets boring, its not what ppl make it out to be. Don't put yourself through that kind of thing with buying protection, waiting for your period to see if the protection worked etc, too much hassle.
Bottom line you are 14, you shouldn't even be kissing boys let alone staying the night with them. Also you are already sexually active with this guy, not so smart my dear. Truth be told your mother still thinks you are a virgin, and your dishonesty with her may backfire on you in the long run..STDS,PREGNANCY..etc. Trust me you don't want to be a teen mother, focus on your schooling and make something of your life.
There will come a day for love, intimacy,and a relationship. I honestly think you are just to young, and I hope to god that no one responds to this with positive feedback todays youth is so misguided as it is.
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