You daughter has done nothing bit be completely honest with you this whole time. She has admitted to being sexually active with her boyfriend and she is responsible enough to be on birth control. She has been with this boy for 4 years, and hasn't slept over his house?
Well I must say you have done a very good job at being her mother. But here is the thing, Your daughter has respected you enough to be so honest with you, Instead of lying to you and saying that she is staying at a friends, she came to you and asked? The last thing you want to do right now is push her away, make her want to lie to you, because if you say no she will.
She's 17 years old, she may always be your baby but she's not a little girl anymore. Maybe you should trust her in this situation. You are already aware that they are sexually active, and you know that she is smart enough to use protection.
What are you afraid of. Let her go, she'll love you more for it and it will bring you closer. Good Luck Jas.
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