How do people feel about their bf/gfs past?

Oh stop already with the shallow, callow, needing constant reassurance crap. And who are you to judge other people? Not everyone has to be tall, dark and handsome.

You can't even spell properly (just how many times did Spell Checker come up for you that you ignored?) or put together a coherent sentence. I find that to be unappealing and unacceptable. Therefore, I find you as unappealing and unacceptable a companion as you find this other guy.

You either accept her. Or you don't. You don't need any explanations as to why she went out with the other guy.

That was before you. And hasn't happened after you. So get over it, past it, whatever.

You don't need to "get" it. You need to "get over it". As in shut up about it already.

What the heck does "then low self esteem rebound after marraige settleing adivce please?" Sentence doesn't even make sense. Marriage is misspelled.

Settling is misspelled. Advice is misspelled. And even with the misspellings - makes no sense.

The only security reassurance you need is you have her now. She is right - you are being childish and silly. I guarantee you that if you keep it up and don't start acting like an adult in adult issues - you will be next to be kicked to the curb.

She has 2 kids - she doesn't need another. She is going to get fed up with this and even if you have the "best sex" and she says you are the "best man" ever (I don't get how she thinks that but...) - she is going to get very tired of everything beyond that and set you free. Life isn't all about "best sex".

The woman didn't come bubble wrapped waiting for you. And I'll bet you didn't either. And what she did or needed and wanted before you is nothing for you to hold over her.

You keep on making fun of her, her previous choices, giving her crap, whining like a baby for "reassurance" and you will soon be history. Likely she wants a man in her life - not some illiterate, whiny, crybaby, needy, jealous moron whose only concern seems to be having to be reassured that he is the "best sex ever". That reassurance and $2 will get you a Caribou coffee.

Meaning it isn't worth much. I suggest you get over yourself. If you want a relationship with this woman - put yourself aside and think of what is best for her and the kids.

The family, the future. Or she will soon tire of all this and be looking for someone who can provide her with not only "best sex" but a decent life as well.

The very fact that she is with YOU and not him should be all the assurance you need that you're the one she wants. Come on, we've all made mistakes and dated somebody where we look back at it now and think "wow, what was I thinking". Give the girl a break.

She was divorced and lonely, he was there. That's probably all it came down to. You need to let it go, seriously.

Anytime you start thinking about the douche bag, just tell yourself that she's with you not him. Period.

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